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		<title>Rules We Don&#8217;t Know About</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My previous two posts (Confession and Polygyny?) deal with topics that are quite different on the surface, but share certain underlying concepts, namely

there are circumstances in which it is necessary for an LDS Church member to approach his or her local Church leader, seeking something that only the leader can provide;1 and
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My previous two posts (<a href="http://www.poorwayfaringman.net/blog/archives/432/confession-example-1" target="_blank">Confession</a> and <a href="http://www.poorwayfaringman.net/blog/archives/402/polygyny" target="_blank">Polygyny?</a>) deal with topics that are quite different on the surface, but share certain underlying concepts, namely</p>
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<li>there are circumstances in which it is necessary for an LDS Church member to approach his or her local Church leader, seeking something that only the leader can provide;<sup>1</sup> and</li>
<li>the Church rules governing such circumstances are usually unclear or unknown to the Church member.<sup>2</sup></li>
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<p>Situations like this are the norm in the LDS Church.<span id="more-441"></span> Non-leaders are not supposed to have much (if any) access to the Church&#8217;s rules and procedures. The Church publishes a rulebook for select local leaders called the &#8220;<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Church_Handbook_of_Instructions" target="_blank">Church Handbook of Instructions</a>&#8221; (the &#8220;CHI&#8221;).</p>
<p>The CHI sets forth the Church&#8217;s official rules regarding a variety of topics, as well as the official Church doctrines under which many of those rules arise. For example, the CHI explains why Church members are disciplined by the Church<sup>3</sup> for committing serious transgressions. The purpose of discipline is three-fold: &#8220;1. to save the souls of transgressors, 2. to protect the innocent, and 3. to safeguard the purity, integrity, and good name of the Church.&#8221;<sup>4</sup> The CHI provides that formal discipline is mandatory for murder, incest, child abuse, apostasy, serious transgression while holding a prominent church position, a transgressor who is a predator, a pattern of serious transgressions, or a transgression that is widely known.<sup>5</sup> Formal discipline is sometimes necessary for &#8220;serious transgression&#8221;, an abortion, or a transsexual operation.<sup>6</sup> The concept of &#8220;serious transgression&#8221; is defined to mean &#8220;a deliberate and major offense against morality&#8221;, including, but not limited to, &#8220;attempted murder, rape, sexual abuse, spouse abuse, intentional serious physical injury of others, adultery, fornication, homosexual relations, deliberate abandonment of family responsibilities, robbery, burglary, theft, embezzlement, sale of illegal drugs, fraud, perjury, and false swearing.&#8221;<sup>7</sup></p>
<p>When I was a 19 year-old missionary standing outside of that MTC classroom/confessional, fretting over my fate, it would have been nice to have known that &#8220;masturbation and/or viewing pornography in years past&#8221; was not included on the &#8220;serious transgressions&#8221; list. In fact, that bit of information would have probably spared me a sizeable portion of the angst and personal torment that hobbled my spirituality, not to mention my social life, during my teenage years.</p>
<p>But keeping Church members informed is not how the LDS Church uses the CHI. In fact, the Church <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Church_Handbook_of_Instructions#Unauthorized_distribution" target="_blank">zealously enforces its copyright</a> with respect to the CHI when anybody attempts to distribute it to unauthorized recipients.<sup>8</sup></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know exactly why the Church keeps its rules such a big secret, but the effect of the secrecy is clear: (1) It gives local Church leaders an informational advantage over the rest of the flock, which creates or augments an aura of authority and wisdom; (2) it makes local Church leaders almost wholly unaccountable to the members they serve for the decisions they make, and for the quality of their leadership; and (3) the combination of 1 and 2 above leaves members in a position of subservience and vulnerability in nearly every interaction they have with local leaders (the higher-up the leader, the greater his dominance). It is a formula for maximum control over members of the Church by local leaders.</p>
<p>If those are the Church&#8217;s reasons for secrecy, then I get it. I just strongly disagree, on ethical grounds.<sup>9</sup> Basic fairness demands that people be allowed to know the rules for which they are to be held accountable. Even if the Church&#8217;s policy in this regard has been adopted with the best intentions, it has the real-world effect of being unfair, oppressive, and enabling <a href="http://mormonalliance.org/definitions.htm" target="_blank">ecclesiastical abuse</a> of powerless members of the Church (the very people the Church should be trying its hardest to protect). <a href="http://mormonalliance.org/definitions.htm" target="_blank"></a></p>
<p>-PWM</p>
<p>______________________</p>
<ol class="footnotes"><li id="footnote_0_441" class="footnote">When I met with a counselor in the branch presidency, I was seeking a way to be forgiven of my sins; when my mom met with her bishop, she was seeking cancellation of her temple marriage</li><li id="footnote_1_441" class="footnote">Neither my mom nor I had a clear idea of what kind of process to expect, or what would be required of us by our Church leaders in connection with our respective request.</li><li id="footnote_2_441" class="footnote">i.e., put on probation, disfellowshipped, or excommunicated; see CHI p. 109</li><li id="footnote_3_441" class="footnote">CHI p. 105</li><li id="footnote_4_441" class="footnote">see CHI pp. 110-11</li><li id="footnote_5_441" class="footnote">see CHI p. 111</li><li id="footnote_6_441" class="footnote">CHI p. 110</li><li id="footnote_7_441" class="footnote">A full copy of the latest (2006) CHI has been made available on Wikileaks, but to avoid a cease-and-desist letter from LDS Church attorneys, I won&#8217;t directly link to it. <a href="http://lmgtfy.com/?q=2006+church+handbook+of+instructions+wikileaks" target="_blank">Just google it.</a></li><li id="footnote_8_441" class="footnote">As an aside, the Church&#8217;s expectation that it is inappropriate for Church members to ever criticize a Church leader (<a href="http://library.lds.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Magazines/Ensign/1987.htm/ensign%20february%201987.htm/criticism.htm?fn=document-frame.htm&amp;f=templates&amp;2.0" target="_blank">even if the criticism is true</a>) makes its policy of withholding the CHI from the members (and therefore removing a key means of formulating criticism) understandable, though cynical, unethical and self-serving.</li></ol>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Criticism Matters</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 1844, in the wake of the Prophet Joseph Smith&#8217;s murder at the hands of a mob in a Carthage, Illinois jail, he was eulogized by a very close friend, John Taylor, with the following statement:
&#8220;Joseph Smith, the Prophet and Seer of the Lord, has done more, save Jesus only, for the salvation of men [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 1844, in the wake of the Prophet Joseph Smith&#8217;s murder at the hands of a mob in a Carthage, Illinois jail, he was eulogized by a very close friend, John Taylor, with the following statement:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Joseph Smith, the Prophet and Seer of the Lord, has done more, save Jesus only, for the salvation of men in this world, than any other man that ever lived in it.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Now, that&#8217;s pretty high praise coming from a Christian. Maybe a little too high?<span id="more-197"></span> It is probably fair to say that this statement is just soaring, sentimentality-soaked hyperbole penned by someone mourning the loss of an admired leader and teacher.</p>
<p>At the same time, however, it is also fair to say that the LDS Church, by adopting the statement into its scriptural canon (see <a href="http://scriptures.lds.org/en/dc/135/3#1">Doctrine &amp; Covenants Sec. 135:3</a>), singing hymns about Joseph Smith (see official LDS Hymns <a href="http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;locale=0&amp;sourceId=535f8356d0d20110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;vgnextoid=198bf4b13819d110VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD">#26, </a><a href="http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;locale=0&amp;sourceId=535f8356d0d20110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;vgnextoid=198bf4b13819d110VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD">Joseph Smith&#8217;s First Prayer</a>, and <a href="http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;locale=0&amp;sourceId=7d0a723ffec20110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;vgnextoid=198bf4b13819d110VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD">#27, </a><a href="http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;locale=0&amp;sourceId=7d0a723ffec20110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;vgnextoid=198bf4b13819d110VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD">Praise to the Man</a>), and extensively focusing on the favorable mythology surrounding Joseph Smith (see e.g., the <a href="http://www.lds.org/library/display/0,4945,6432-1-3297-1,00.html">Joseph Smith birthday commemoration web page</a>, linking to <a href="http://www.josephsmith.net/josephsmith/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=041579179acbff00VgnVCM1000001f5e340aRCRD">an elaborate website dedicated to Joseph Smith</a>), has elevated this sentiment to the level of mainstream LDS religious belief. This common belief is substantiated by the teachings of Brigham Young , which include the following (possibly also sentimentality-warped, but nonetheless extant and <a href="http://www.poorwayfaringman.net/blog/archives/123/the-path-from-lds-to-flds" target="_blank">never officially disavowed</a>) statement:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;&#8230;no man or woman in this dispensation will ever enter into the celestial kingdom of God without the consent of Joseph Smith. From the day that the Priesthood was taken from the earth to the winding-up scene of all things, every man and woman must have the certificate of Joseph Smith, junior, as a passport to their entrance into the mansion where God and Christ are—I with you and you with me. I cannot go there without his consent. He holds the keys of that kingdom for the last dispensation—the keys to rule in the spirit-world; and he rules there triumphantly, for he gained full power and a glorious victory over the power of Satan while he was yet in the flesh, and was a martyr to his religion and to the name of Christ, which gives him a most perfect victory in the spirit-world. He reigns there as supreme a being in his sphere, capacity, and calling, as God does in heaven. Many will exclaim—&#8217;Oh, that is very disagreeable! It is preposterous! We cannot bear the thought!&#8217; But it is true.&#8221;</p>
<p>(JD, Vol. 7, p.287)</p></blockquote>
<p>Unfortunately, mainstream members of the LDS Church not only feel pressure to believe that Joseph Smith is the greatest-man-ever-next-to-Jesus (and the gatekeeper of heaven), but also, for those who attempt to learn more about Joseph Smith through studying history, to reconcile that belief with growing evidence that Joseph Smith was a man of <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4njrXezvIHA" target="_blank">very questionable personal morals and ethics</a>, willing to use the beliefs of others (particularly regarding eventual rewards in the afterlife), as well as his own position of ecclesiastical power, <a href="http://www.imagesoftherestoration.org/blog/?p=15" target="_blank">to further his personal interests</a>.</p>
<p>For many members of the LDS Church today, this conflict over the character of Joseph Smith extends also to current leaders of the LDS Church, who claim authority&#8211;through Joseph Smith&#8211;to speak for God. As authorized spokesmen of God, the current LDS prophets and apostles, whose words and actions are often<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MchC55BUzsk" target="_blank"> ethically and morally questionable themselves</a>, are simply not (religiously) accountable to members of the Church. In fact, as Apostle Dallin H. Oaks has taught, LDS Church leaders are <a href="http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD&amp;locale=0&amp;sourceId=883267700817b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;hideNav=1" target="_blank">never to be criticized publicly by members of the Church</a>. The only redress against abuse is to privately contact the offending apostle himself, or go over his head and privately contact the prophet about it. Not much of a feedback mechanism there (particularly if it is the prophet who is behaving badly). In the end, I suppose, these men eschew accountability to Church members for their actions because they feel they are called of God to interface with the people, not elected by the people to interface with God. (Also, they don&#8217;t want accountability because they are typical self-interested human beings, and they are lucky enough to be able to indulge that preference. JMO.)</p>
<p>However it technically works, the result is to place sincere, faithful members of the Church in the difficult position of excusing or ignoring nearly all of the bad leadership and abuse that they see perpetuated by these men in the name of God. Even for abuses perpetrated by middle managers in the Church organization (Stake Presidents and Bishops) there can be tremendous cultural and official pressure to just let it slide. For a particularly glaring example of this, <a href="http://www.sfweekly.com/1998-08-05/news/the-fairfield-wives/" target="_blank">CLICK HERE</a> (long version) or <a href="http://www.sfweekly.com/2000-01-26/news/fairfield-wives-saga-continues/" target="_blank">HERE</a> (short summary in last two paragraphs). The moral crisis this creates in the minds of members of the Church becomes a catalyst for apostasy, as people who have always cared deeply for, and taken very seriously, the Church, its leaders, and its teachings, are not able, in good conscience (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lavina_Fielding_Anderson" target="_blank">and sometimes despite their sincere desire</a>), to continue participating in the LDS faith community.</p>
<p>-PWM</p>
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